The differences between womem and men
[Beginning]
Culture is the life style.
Tylor, an important figure of anthropology, said culture contain knowledge, belief, art, law, ethic, and customs etc. (et cetera)
All of these are what people do daily. And the most interesting thing is the difference between cultures. Now I want to present this in three aspects: physically, spiritually and material life.
[Body]
Physically
Basically, people are looked quite the same, everyone has one head, body, and a set of limbs. But here is a truth that there are two sorts of people is really different in the world. Those are women and men.
What is the main reason of this truth?
The answer is concealed in the brain.
How we learn things is depending on our structure of brain. And there are many researches are related what difference between women and men’s brain. According the book titled “why men don’t listen and women can’t read maps”.
It explains men and women’s brains have developed specific areas to handle different skills. It depends on different needs.
In the ancient world, men, being responsible for hunting game, needed to develop tactics for organizing the kill and to hone skills for hitting a target. They didn’t need to be good at conversation or sensitive to anyone’s emotional needs, so they never developed strong brain areas for interpersonal skills.
Women, by contrast, needed the capacity for wider fringe vision to monitor their surroundings, the ability to perform several activities in the same time and effective communications skill, because they have to raise the child and takes care the cave when men are hutting outside.
In other word, women are more sensitive than men.
To prove this point of view, I have a story about my friend. One day my friend was angry about her boyfriend and throws books down to the ground and goes away to show her anger. Then her boyfriend just picked up the books for her and said “hey, baby you drop your books” without feeling her anger.
That is the reason why these two brains fight forever.
Ok, It’s about the Physical.
How about spiritual aspect of differences between cultures.
Take the religions as the example. We have learned a lot history about wars of religions. Actually we have the same problem nowadays.
People always argue about what kinds of ceremony to express the love of God should be right.
A friend comes from Bosnia told me that gestures to express respect to God between the Orthodox and the Catholic are really different. If you do the wrong way it would be a big mistake. Let me show you how different they are.
These kinds of little things would be a fuse of the war. Just be careful.
Beside the physical and spiritual aspect of the difference between cultures. The material life also forms a lot cultural difference around our daily life.
What people wear or use or where the people lives represent the status of people.
I think it is because people have the needs to be recognized in the society and it’s the most easy way to recognize a person you don’t know stand before you from how he or she looked.
One of my friends who ever lived in Unity State said there is a street of all the house with grille and another one just besides it, all the house have no grill but the lawn with great care before the house. You just see two streets, two worlds.
[Conclusion]
These differences seem making a lot mass in the world. From argues of couple to the wars of two religions, also the prejudice in the society.
But it also the reason makes this world so variously and fascinating.
What I want to present here is a simple truth.
Everyone in the world is different. It is a law in this world.
Since this law there will be no base line to distinguish difference between peoples.
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