Manage and Motivate
Destiny
Because financial tsunami attack our world so many countries got a big problem in economy, rich man’s property became bubble companies bankrupt and so many workers be unemployed even they have job now they still worry about that they will be the next one, bosses don’t know how to keep their company going employees don’t know how to keep their job and keep their family well so many people got high stress that really make a serious damage in our society.
According to research when people don’t know how to solve problem which way they can go usually most of people will go to ask fortune teller ask for their future, there are some ways that fortune teller use to predict your future such as palm reading 紫微斗數 or 測字, for young man the most popular tool is horoscope, horoscope is similar like紫微斗數 you can know your personality by horoscope then through that to predict your future, some one say your personality design your future.
Dear fellow toastmasters do you believe that? Yes, I believe the saying your personality design your future but I don’t believe horoscope, because so many things can influence your personality. Here is an example, this boy his birthday is 1/14 according to horoscope he is Capricorn Capricorn’s personality are shy hard working stubborn serious traditional practical cruel logical, did he own those characteristics? Yes he did, some elder friends told that when he was a baby he was silent he dislike people to hug him he seldom smile just sat in the baby walker and did not thing judge by his behaviors he was so shy serious and dislike to social, I like this cute boy so much because this kind of baby is so easy to take care just put there give him food then he will grow up by him self you don’t need to spend too much time to take care, this boy was so thoughtful if I have a son like him that will be a luckiest thing in my life, but in the other hand after this boy grow up he might has a big problem because people are social but he dislike social how can he live with people. And he was stubborn nobody can change his mind from his dressing I know he is not a fashionable person because he never change his style so he was not open minded and he was practical he start to mad business from his elementary school student hood because he knew he couldn’t rely on others he need make money for him self, and he was cruel once he grew some vegetables that was organic because he was just a little boy he didn’t know how to use pesticide so the worm ate his vegetables do you know what he did? Yes, he kill the worms but not let them die so easily, he thought I need to revenge I work so hard to grew those vegetables they broke my achievement I must let them die painfully so he catches the worms he broke ants nest ants went out to fond the enemy then he put worms in ants home let ants bite them until they die, this gut was so cruel, you might guess he will be a criminal like 陳進興in the future, you are not 100% wrong because陳進興 was a Capricorn too, but this boy didn’t become a criminal, because this boy is me I am not a criminal now.
When I tell people I am Capricorn no body believe because I am totally different with Capricorn they always ask me, are you joking no body can feel that I am shy I am serious, am I? And am I cruel? No I am so friendly you couldn’t find those characteristics from me, but I admit I am a little stingy most of Capricorns are stingy. You might wonder what happen in my life why could I change a lot. Yes, it must have a lot of things can say, but all in all that main reason is environment, environment changes my personality, for example since my father he likes to move home so I have more chance to stand in front of my classmate to introduce my self such environment forces me to contact with people then I used to talk with people you might think my father he was like 孟母 he moved just want to fond a suitable place let us to grew up, of course not you think too much that just was his habit, and because my life experience and teacher’s educating I am not cruel any more and from society’s problem I knew no body is almighty no body is always right no rule can last forever we should be open minded we have to accept other’s suggestion we need innovation so I am not stubborn now.
Dear fellow toastmasters remember the saying your personality design your future, but environment can changes your personality you just need to find a good environment to change your self then you can change your future, so your destiny is controlled in your hand. And where is the good environment? Toastmaster is, you can see many evidences here this environment changes them a lot, create a great environment let people to grow that is our goal that is what our officer are doing now, dear friends do you enjoy it? If you are satisfied I am so happy about that, but if you are not I know nobody is perfect there still have some weak points need to improve I hope and welcome you to join us let’s do it together to create a better environment, “finding a good environment” is not the only one way what you can do, you also can create the environment for your self and for others.
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