Darlene's C4 speech

C4 speech（How To Say It , 5 to 7 minutes） by Darlene
Title: LOVE A TO Z delivered on 2006/1/03
(OPEN)
Lots of people ask me“Darlene, what is love?”, and I always smile and tell them“Love is the most beautiful and magic thing in this world”.Since I was an elementary school student, I solved love problems for my classmates and friends, they regard me as a love expert. I won’t say I am a real expert, but I really enjoy talking and sharing something about love. So tonight I will share you about what love is.
(Body)
Love is “Accept”~ No one is perfect, especially when two people get together, they are just like two different piece of brick, you have to pander to each other. So If you love him, you have to accept all, including his defect.
Love is “Believe”~ If you don’t believe him and always have mistrust of your lover, I believe the final outcome is “break up”.
Love is “Care”~ The level you care about your lover equals to the level you value about him. Sometimes you can call him and give him your caring. He’ll feel sweet.
Love is “Devoted”~ If you love someone, you have to devote to him. It’s not good to have many lovers at the same time, otherwise you only hurt the one you love and waste your time.
Love is “Enjoy”~ You should appreciate everything about him, and enjoy the happiness which love gives you, then you can love with pleasure, not only be a picky lover.
Love is “Freedom”~ Although you are seeing each other, but you should give each other freedom and the right to keep your own secret. Your lover is not your slave, so don’t let him feel he is like your pet, only can stay in the cage.
Love is “Give”~ Love is not you paid as you gained. But if you don’t give, then you don’t get.
Love is “Heart”~ The most important element of love is heart, if you don’t have true heart, how can you say you are really in love with him?
Love is “Independence”~ The most sweet talk is “I was born because of you”. But everyone should have their own space. You shouldn’t too rely on your lover and become their heavy burden.
Love is “Jealousy”~ Appropriate jealousy is good, that means you care about them, but you can not jealous for no reason, otherwise it will be resentful.
Love is “Kiss”~ Sometimes kiss talks, if you don’t know how to express your love, just give him(her) a kiss.
Love is “Love”~ Love is different from like, it’s the highest state of relationship. So you should often say “ I love you”, I guarantee women buys it.
Love is “Mature”~ Don’t be childish when you talk about love, if your attitude is mature, that will help you to have better relationship.
Love is “ Natural”~ Many people when they start dating, they will hide their defect and become another person. After the time goes by, then their defect will gradually come out. In fact, natural love goes forever.
Love is “Observe”~ You should pay more attention about what your lover’s hobbies and interest. For example, if he said he likes the watch on the magazine, then you could buy it as a birthday gift, and give him as a surprise.
Love is “Protect”~ Be someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend, you should protect each other. Especially be a girlfriend you should protect your boyfriend’s dignity, don’t insult your boyfriend in public.
Love is “Quarter”~ How come there is no quarter in love? When he make mistake, you should forgive him. Why? Because you are the one who loves him most.
Love is “ Receive”~ When your lover do something for you, don’t be so cool. Because this will make him dejected. You should receive it appreciatively.
Love is “Share”~ You should share everything with your lover. It’s the simple duty you can do as a girlfriend (boyfriend). Share your happiness、anger、sorrow、joy with him.
Love is “Try”~ When you have been get together for a long time, you might feel it’s a little bit dull, it’s normal. But it’s only a stage toward to a successful relationship, and it’s also the most important one, if you can go through this period of time, I believe you will have a happy life, so let’s try different way to communicate.
Love is “Understand”~ You should understand who he (she )is, otherwise you can’t get along with him (her )well.
Love is “Vow”~ Everyone can vow. Vow can make your lover feel you love him so much. But don’t vow too often, otherwise it’s meaningless.
Love is “Willingness”~ Sometimes your lover will request you to do something, it may not reasonable. If it’s reasonable, but you are not willing do it, please just say “No”.
Love is “ eXpression”~ when you get together, you should express your thought and opinions. Don’t just keep silence. The gap between you and him will become bigger.
Love is “Yield”~ When you get together, tolerance is very important, don’t yell at each other. It’s harmful; and it can’t solve the problem. And remember don’t say “break up” easily.
Love is “Zest”~ Be passionate to your lover. But remember don’t go too far, otherwise she might think you’re crazy.
I remember Miss momo have said “ The most touching thing a man do to his girlfriend is not give her a diamond ring or a bouquet of roses. That’s he can remember every word she said to him and materialize it one day” .Yes, it’s true. Although I know something about love, I am still learning now. Because love is the most simple and complicated thing in this world. Only wait for you to explore it, I am sure you can find its amazement.